Fragrance comparison

A Mes Amours vs She & Male

Notes, accords, longevity, sillage, seasons and community ratings, side by side.

Updated 19 Oct 2026 57 ratings analysed

A Mes Amours

Ann Steeger

—0 votes

Rank #70,757 AromaticWoody

Full profile Similar & dupes

50%scent match

Some overlap

1 wins

She & Male

LEN Fragrances

3.8157 votes

Rank #26,223 EarthyWoody

Full profile Similar & dupes

Quick verdict

Which one should you pick?

She & Male takes 1 of 1 categories.

A Mes Amours
Choose it for a aromatic and woody character.
She & Male
Choose it for a earthy and woody character. Wins on fragranxe ranking. Best in fall, daytime wear.

A Mes Amours0/1

She & Male1/1

Ratings & consensus: Not scored
Community sentiment: Not scored
Longevity: Not scored
Sillage & projection: Not scored
Value for money: Not scored
Versatility: Not scored
Note pyramid (duration): Not scored
Fragranxe ranking: She & Male

Head-to-head breakdown

Every category side by side, with the winner called out.

Fragrance

A Mes AmoursAnn Steeger

She & MaleLEN Fragrances

Winner

Ratings & consensus

Average rating and ownership split

—/ 5 · 0 votes

Have 13%Had 0%Want 88%

3.81/ 5 · 57 votes

Have 28%Had 7%Want 64%

Category winnerNot enough dataRating weighted by vote count

Community sentiment

How voters split from love to hate

Not enough votes yet

32%Love

40%Like

11%Ok

12%Dislike

5%Hate

57 votes

Category winnerNot enough dataMost positive mix (25+ votes)

Longevity & sillage

0–100 community performance scores

⏱ LongevityN/A

〰 SillageN/A

♥ Love / hateN/A

⏱ Longevity71

〰 Sillage60

♥ Love / hate70

Category winners

LongevityNo data

SillageNo data

Value for money

How fairly priced voters find it

¤ Price valueN/A

¤ Price value39

Category winnerNot enough dataBest value score

Main accords

Strength of each scent family · outlined = shared by both

aromatic100%

woody92%

earthy84%

rose77%

white floral69%

citrus61%

earthy100%

woody92%

iris84%

mossy77%

aromatic69%

powdery61%

Scent match50%Some overlap · both woody, earthy and aromatic

Note pyramid (duration)

Top, heart and base, with how long each lasts when known · gold = shared

Top

NeroliSageLemon VerbenaGeraniumYlang-Ylang

Heart

RoseLily-of-the-Valley

Base

VetiverPatchouliIrisMoss

Top20-30 mins

Iris

Heart3-4 hrs

VetiverNeroli

Base8-10+ hrs

Moss

InformationalShared notesNeroli, Vetiver, Iris and Moss. Durations are only published for She & Male, so this is not scored.

Seasons & time of day

Relative to each fragrance's best season

No season votes yet

Spring62

Summer24

Fall100

Winter57

Day100

Night73

Category winnerNot enough dataMost year-round

Who wears it

Gender appeal votes

Not enough votes yet

Men3

Unisex44

Women53

Work 33%Casual 29%Date 26%Party 13%

InformationalProfile onlyAudience is not scored

Ranking & credits

Fragranxe overall rank, nose and launch

Overall rank#70,757

PerfumerAnn Steeger

Launched—

Reviews0

Overall rank#26,223

PerfumerMichel Almairac

Launched—

Reviews4

Category winnerShe & MaleHigher overall rank

In a nutshell

Description & review snapshot

A Mes Amours opens with a sharp burst of lemon verbena, crushed sage leaves, and bitter neroli. The initial spray feels green and crisp, carrying a herbal snap that leans traditional rather than modern. Within twenty minutes, the citrus edge softens as quiet rose and lily-of-the-valley emerge, keeping the floral tone …

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She & Male by LEN Fragrances opens with a sharp flash of cool iris root and bright neroli. It feels chilled. Within ten minutes, that initial cosmetic sharpness softens into a smooth, velvety powder. Haitian vetiver steps forward to ground the floral lift with an earthy, clean grassiness. The composition never turns o…

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InformationalRead bothTaste is personal

How we score: ratings blend public fragrance ratings with Fragranxe member votes; longevity, sillage, value and sentiment are community vote scores, and season bars are relative to each fragrance's strongest season. Categories with too little data are shown but not scored. The scent match weighs accord overlap (60%) and shared notes (40%). More in the FAQ.

Common questions

Straight answers from the data above.

Do A Mes Amours and She & Male smell similar?

Some overlap: a 50% scent match on Fragranxe. Both share woody, earthy and aromatic accords. Common notes include Neroli, Vetiver, Iris and Moss.

Is A Mes Amours or She & Male better for summer or winter?

She & Male suits daytime wear. Based on community season votes.

What are the notes in A Mes Amours and She & Male?

A Mes Amours has top notes of Neroli, Sage, Lemon Verbena and Geranium, heart notes of Rose and Lily-of-the-Valley, a base of Vetiver, Patchouli, Iris and Moss. She & Male has top notes of Iris, heart notes of Vetiver and Neroli, a base of Moss.