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Bois Obscur vs Ménage à trois

Notes, accords, longevity, sillage, seasons and community ratings, side by side.

Updated 52 ratings analysed
Some overlap
Quick verdict

Which one should you pick?

Ménage à trois takes 3 of 4 categories.

  • Bois Obscur

    Choose it for a woody and warm spicy character. Wins on fragranxe ranking. Best in fall, evening wear.

  • Ménage à trois

    Choose it for a oud and leather character. Wins on longevity, sillage & projection and value for money. Best in winter, day or night wear.

Bois Obscur1/4
Ménage à trois3/4
Ratings & consensus
Not scored
Community sentiment
Not scored
Longevity
Ménage à trois
Sillage & projection
Ménage à trois
Value for money
Ménage à trois
Versatility
Not scored
Note pyramid (duration)
Not scored
Fragranxe ranking
Bois Obscur

Head-to-head breakdown

Every category side by side, with the winner called out.

Fragrance
Bois ObscurByredo
Ménage à troisMAISON OLFACTIF
Winner

Ratings & consensus

Average rating and ownership split
3.54/ 5 · 46 votes
Have 17%Had 5%Want 78%
4.50/ 5 · 6 votes
Have 32%Had 0%Want 68%
Category winnerNot enough dataRating weighted by vote count

Community sentiment

How voters split from love to hate
39%Love
11%Like
24%Ok
17%Dislike
9%Hate

46 votes

67%Love
17%Like
17%Ok
0%Dislike
0%Hate

6 votes · too few to score

Category winnerNot enough dataMost positive mix (25+ votes)

Longevity & sillage

0–100 community performance scores
⏱ Longevity79
〰 Sillage67
♥ Love / hate64
⏱ Longevity87
〰 Sillage83
♥ Love / hate88
Category winners

LongevityMénage à trois

SillageMénage à trois

Value for money

How fairly priced voters find it
¤ Price value13
¤ Price value79
Category winnerMénage à troisBest value score

Main accords

Strength of each scent family · outlined = shared by both
woody100%
warm spicy92%
amber84%
white floral77%
oud69%
patchouli61%
oud100%
leather86%
amber72%
smoky58%
animalic44%
balsamic30%
Scent match37%Some overlap · both oud and amber

Note pyramid (duration)

Top, heart and base, with how long each lasts when known · gold = shared
Top
SaffronEucalyptusPapyrus
Heart
OudTuberoseJasmine
Base
PatchouliLabdanumAmberSandalwood
Top
BergamotTuberoseJasmine
Heart
StyraxVanillaSaffronHoneyIris
Base
LeatherOudLabdanumBenzoinAmber
InformationalShared notesSaffron, Oud, Tuberose and Jasmine. Note durations are not published for these fragrances, so this is not scored.

Seasons & time of day

Relative to each fragrance's best season
Spring13
Summer13
Fall100
Winter94
Day17
Night100
Spring67
Summer17
Fall83
Winter100
Day100
Night100
Category winnerNot enough dataMost year-round

Who wears it

Gender appeal votes
Men33
Unisex43
Women24
Men0
Unisex71
Women29
InformationalProfile onlyAudience is not scored

Ranking & credits

Fragranxe overall rank, nose and launch

Overall rank#21,162

PerfumerNot listed

Launched—

Reviews11

Overall rank#48,527

PerfumerNot listed

Launched—

Reviews0

Category winnerBois ObscurHigher overall rank

In a nutshell

Description & review snapshot

Bois Obscur by Byredo is a bold unisex fragrance centered on deep woods and warm spices. It opens with a sharp, medicinal eucalyptus note before shifting into a complex heart of oud and tuberose. Designed for colder weather, it offers a dense, resinous profile that lingers on the skin for hours. This is a scent for th…

Reviews →

Ménage à trois by MAISON OLFACTIF is an ambitious oriental floral that leans heavily into dark, resinous textures. It balances a bright bergamot opening with a heavy base of leather and oud, making it a compelling choice for evening wear. This 2023 release offers a bold, unisex experience for those who enjoy scents wi…

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InformationalRead bothTaste is personal

How we score: ratings blend public fragrance ratings with Fragranxe member votes; longevity, sillage, value and sentiment are community vote scores, and season bars are relative to each fragrance's strongest season. Categories with too little data are shown but not scored. The scent match weighs accord overlap (60%) and shared notes (40%). More in the FAQ.

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Head-to-head activity from live history

Common questions

Straight answers from the data above.

Which is better, Bois Obscur or Ménage à trois?

Ménage à trois takes 3 of 4 categories. Bois Obscur is rated 3.54/5 from 46 votes; Ménage à trois is rated 4.50/5 from 6 votes. Choose Bois Obscur for a woody and warm spicy character. Wins on fragranxe ranking. Best in fall, evening wear. Choose Ménage à trois for a oud and leather character. Wins on longevity, sillage & projection and value for money. Best in winter, day or night wear.

Which lasts longer, Bois Obscur or Ménage à trois?

Ménage à trois lasts longest (Ménage à trois 87/100, Bois Obscur 79/100), based on community performance votes.

Which projects more, Bois Obscur or Ménage à trois?

Ménage à trois projects furthest (Ménage à trois 83/100, Bois Obscur 67/100), based on community performance votes.

Do Bois Obscur and Ménage à trois smell similar?

Some overlap: a 37% scent match on Fragranxe. Both share oud and amber accords. Common notes include Saffron, Oud, Tuberose and Jasmine.

Is Bois Obscur or Ménage à trois better for summer or winter?

Bois Obscur suits evening wear; Ménage à trois suits day or night wear. Based on community season votes.

What are the notes in Bois Obscur and Ménage à trois?

Bois Obscur has top notes of Saffron, Eucalyptus and Papyrus, heart notes of Oud, Tuberose and Jasmine, a base of Patchouli, Labdanum, Amber and Sandalwood. Ménage à trois has top notes of Bergamot, Tuberose and Jasmine, heart notes of Styrax, Vanilla, Saffron and Honey, a base of Leather, Oud, Labdanum and Benzoin.

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