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Don’t Ask vs Abjar

Notes, accords, longevity, sillage, seasons and community ratings, side by side.

Updated 87 ratings analysed
Clearly different
Quick verdict

Which one should you pick?

Abjar takes 3 of 4 categories.

  • Don’t Ask

    Choose it for a woody and aromatic character. Wins on value for money. Best in spring, daytime wear.

  • Abjar

    Choose it for a woody and leather character. Wins on longevity, sillage & projection and fragranxe ranking. Best in winter.

Don’t Ask1/4
Abjar3/4
Ratings & consensus
Not scored
Community sentiment
Not scored
Longevity
Abjar
Sillage & projection
Abjar
Value for money
Don’t Ask
Versatility
Not scored
Note pyramid (duration)
Not scored
Fragranxe ranking
Abjar

Head-to-head breakdown

Every category side by side, with the winner called out.

Fragrance
Don’t AskPrimera Perfumes
AbjarThe Spirit of Dubai
Winner

Ratings & consensus

Average rating and ownership split
5.00/ 5 · 1 votes
Have 63%Had 0%Want 38%
4.49/ 5 · 86 votes
Have 80%Had 20%Want 0%
Category winnerNot enough dataRating weighted by vote count

Community sentiment

How voters split from love to hate
100%Love
0%Like
0%Ok
0%Dislike
0%Hate

1 vote · too few to score

72%Love
13%Like
7%Ok
8%Dislike
0%Hate

86 votes

Category winnerNot enough dataMost positive mix (25+ votes)

Longevity & sillage

0–100 community performance scores
⏱ Longevity80
〰 Sillage75
♥ Love / hate100
⏱ Longevity91
〰 Sillage84
♥ Love / hate87
Category winners

LongevityAbjar

SillageAbjar

Value for money

How fairly priced voters find it
¤ Price value50
¤ Price value28
Category winnerDon’t AskBest value score

Main accords

Strength of each scent family · outlined = shared by both
woody100%
aromatic92%
fresh spicy84%
earthy77%
citrus69%
sweet61%
woody100%
leather92%
amber84%
smoky77%
animalic69%
aromatic61%
Scent match27%Clearly different · both woody and aromatic

Note pyramid (duration)

Top, heart and base, with how long each lasts when known · gold = shared
Top30 to 45 minutes
Green LeavesGrapefruitPineappleBergamot
Heart2 to 3 hours
CorianderGeraniumAmbroxanNutmegIris
Base5 to 8 hours
PatchouliOakmossVetiverTobaccoWoody Notes
Top
CypressPineClary SageNutmegStyraxAldehydesLavenderPepper
Heart
LeatherEarthy NotesBirch LeafIncenseIndian OudResinsWoody NotesGuaiac Wood
Base
CastoreumCivetTobaccoAgarwood (Oud)AmberTolu BalsamSandalwoodBenzoin
InformationalShared notesNutmeg, Tobacco and Woody Notes. Durations are only published for Don’t Ask, so this is not scored.

Seasons & time of day

Relative to each fragrance's best season
Spring100
Summer100
Fall100
Winter0
Day100
Night–
Spring61
Summer25
Fall0
Winter100
Day–
Night–
Category winnerNot enough dataMost year-round

Who wears it

Gender appeal votes
Men100
Unisex0
Women0
Men74
Unisex20
Women6
InformationalProfile onlyAudience is not scored

Ranking & credits

Fragranxe overall rank, nose and launch

Overall rank#57,782

PerfumerNot listed

Launched—

Reviews0

Overall rank#25,869

PerfumerNot listed

Launched—

Reviews0

Category winnerAbjarHigher overall rank

In a nutshell

Description & review snapshot

Don’t Ask by Primera Perfumes presents a crisp, outdoorsy profile built around sharp citrus and rich forestry. The opening delivers a burst of tart grapefruit and bergamot paired with fresh green leaves and sweet pineapple. As the first rush settles, spicy coriander and nutmeg meet floral geranium and powdery iris, an…

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Abjar by The Spirit of Dubai opens with a sharp burst of aromatic cypress, pine needles, and spicy nutmeg before settling into a dense heart of birch leaf and natural leather. As the composition warms on skin, smoky incense, Indian oud, and rich labdanum take control, giving the fragrance a dark resinous texture. The …

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InformationalRead bothTaste is personal

How we score: ratings blend public fragrance ratings with Fragranxe member votes; longevity, sillage, value and sentiment are community vote scores, and season bars are relative to each fragrance's strongest season. Categories with too little data are shown but not scored. The scent match weighs accord overlap (60%) and shared notes (40%). More in the FAQ.

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Common questions

Straight answers from the data above.

Which is better, Don’t Ask or Abjar?

Abjar takes 3 of 4 categories. Don’t Ask is rated 5.00/5 from 1 votes; Abjar is rated 4.49/5 from 86 votes. Choose Don’t Ask for a woody and aromatic character. Wins on value for money. Best in spring, daytime wear. Choose Abjar for a woody and leather character. Wins on longevity, sillage & projection and fragranxe ranking. Best in winter.

Which lasts longer, Don’t Ask or Abjar?

Abjar lasts longest (Abjar 91/100, Don’t Ask 80/100), based on community performance votes.

Which projects more, Don’t Ask or Abjar?

Abjar projects furthest (Abjar 84/100, Don’t Ask 75/100), based on community performance votes.

Do Don’t Ask and Abjar smell similar?

Clearly different: a 27% scent match on Fragranxe. Both share woody and aromatic accords. Common notes include Nutmeg, Tobacco and Woody Notes.

Is Don’t Ask or Abjar better for summer or winter?

Don’t Ask suits daytime wear. Based on community season votes.

What are the notes in Don’t Ask and Abjar?

Don’t Ask has top notes of Green Leaves, Grapefruit, Pineapple and Bergamot, heart notes of Coriander, Geranium, Ambroxan and Nutmeg, a base of Patchouli, Oakmoss, Vetiver and Tobacco. Abjar has top notes of Cypress, Pine, Clary Sage and Nutmeg, heart notes of Leather, Earthy Notes, Birch Leaf and Incense, a base of Castoreum, Civet, Tobacco and Agarwood (Oud).

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