Fragrance comparison

Ex Votos vs Attache-Moi ICI & LA

Notes, accords, longevity, sillage, seasons and community ratings, side by side.

Updated 9 Oct 2026 40 ratings analysed

Ex Votos

House of Matriarch

4.1921 votes

Rank #47,836 Yellow FloralFloral

Full profile Similar & dupes

21%scent match

Clearly different

Attache-Moi ICI & LA

ICONOFLY

4.1619 votes

Rank #43,710 Fresh SpicyMusky

Full profile Similar & dupes

Quick verdict

Which one should you pick?

No clear winner: the 6 categories split 3–3.

Ex Votos
Choose it for a yellow floral and floral character. Wins on ratings & consensus, longevity and note pyramid duration. Best in fall, evening wear.
Attache-Moi ICI & LA
Choose it for a fresh spicy and musky character. Wins on sillage & projection, value for money and fragranxe ranking. Best in fall, evening wear.

Ex Votos3/6

Attache-Moi ICI & LA3/6

Ratings & consensus: Ex Votos
Community sentiment: Not scored
Longevity: Ex Votos
Sillage & projection: Attache-Moi ICI & LA
Value for money: Attache-Moi ICI & LA
Versatility: Not scored
Note pyramid (duration): Ex Votos
Fragranxe ranking: Attache-Moi ICI & LA

Head-to-head breakdown

Every category side by side, with the winner called out.

Fragrance

Ex VotosHouse of Matriarch

Attache-Moi ICI & LAICONOFLY

Winner

Ratings & consensus

Average rating and ownership split

4.19/ 5 · 21 votes

Have 20%Had 6%Want 74%

4.16/ 5 · 19 votes

Have 34%Had 14%Want 52%

Category winnerEx VotosRating weighted by vote count

Community sentiment

How voters split from love to hate

52%Love

24%Like

19%Ok

0%Dislike

5%Hate

21 votes · too few to score

37%Love

47%Like

11%Ok

5%Dislike

0%Hate

19 votes · too few to score

Category winnerNot enough dataMost positive mix (25+ votes)

Longevity & sillage

0–100 community performance scores

⏱ Longevity58

〰 Sillage48

♥ Love / hate80

⏱ Longevity52

〰 Sillage58

♥ Love / hate79

Category winners

LongevityEx Votos

SillageAttache-Moi ICI & LA

Value for money

How fairly priced voters find it

¤ Price value35

¤ Price value45

Category winnerAttache-Moi ICI & LABest value score

Main accords

Strength of each scent family · outlined = shared by both

yellow floral100%

floral92%

beeswax84%

honey77%

amber69%

musky61%

fresh spicy100%

musky92%

warm spicy84%

powdery77%

amber69%

soft spicy61%

Scent match21%Clearly different · both musky and amber

Note pyramid (duration)

Top, heart and base, with how long each lasts when known · gold = shared

Top15-30 mins

BeeswaxExotic floral notes

Heart2-4 hrs

GoldenrodNarcissusBroom

Base6-8 hrs

Ylang-YlangDeer Tongue GrassAngelicaResins

Top15-30 mins

Black PepperPink PepperBergamot

Heart2-4 hrs

Chili PepperOrange LeafNutmegAngelicaJasmineYlang-Ylang

Base5-8 hrs

BeeswaxMuskIncenseVanillaAmbrette (Musk Mallow)OrrisOakmossAtlas Cedar

Category winnerEx VotosLongest dry-down: 6-8 hrs

Seasons & time of day

Relative to each fragrance's best season

Spring80

Summer80

Fall100

Winter80

Day92

Night100

Spring38

Summer13

Fall100

Winter25

Day50

Night100

Category winnerNot enough dataMost year-round

Who wears it

Gender appeal votes

Men0

Unisex46

Women54

Date 33%Casual 31%Work 28%Party 8%

Men13

Unisex63

Women25

Date 36%Casual 28%Work 23%Party 13%

InformationalProfile onlyAudience is not scored

Ranking & credits

Fragranxe overall rank, nose and launch

Overall rank#47,836

PerfumerChristi Meshell

Launched—

Reviews0

Overall rank#43,710

PerfumerShyamala Maisondieu

Launched—

Reviews0

Category winnerAttache-Moi ICI & LAHigher overall rank

In a nutshell

Description & review snapshot

Ex Votos smells like warm golden honey dripped over sunlit prairie wildflowers. Christi Meshell leads with unbleached beeswax, sweet exotic florals, and the dusty pollen edge of wild goldenrod. It feels earthy, textured, and deeply natural from the very first minute. You will not find synthetic sugar or clean designer…

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Attache-Moi ICI & LA by ICONOFLY is an eccentric spicy chypre that bridges brisk citrus zest with rich, honeyed warmth. It opens with an immediate crackle of black pepper and sparkling bergamot before settling into a prickly core of chili pepper, earthy angelica, and nutmeg. As the initial heat calms down, golden bees…

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InformationalRead bothTaste is personal

How we score: ratings blend public fragrance ratings with Fragranxe member votes; longevity, sillage, value and sentiment are community vote scores, and season bars are relative to each fragrance's strongest season. Categories with too little data are shown but not scored. The scent match weighs accord overlap (60%) and shared notes (40%). More in the FAQ.

Common questions

Straight answers from the data above.

Which is better, Ex Votos or Attache-Moi ICI & LA?

No clear winner: the 6 categories split 3–3. Ex Votos is rated 4.19/5 from 21 votes; Attache-Moi ICI & LA is rated 4.16/5 from 19 votes. Choose Ex Votos for a yellow floral and floral character. Wins on ratings & consensus, longevity and note pyramid duration. Best in fall, evening wear. Choose Attache-Moi ICI & LA for a fresh spicy and musky character. Wins on sillage & projection, value for money and fragranxe ranking. Best in fall, evening wear.

Which lasts longer, Ex Votos or Attache-Moi ICI & LA?

Ex Votos lasts longest (Ex Votos 58/100, Attache-Moi ICI & LA 52/100), based on community performance votes.

Which projects more, Ex Votos or Attache-Moi ICI & LA?

Attache-Moi ICI & LA projects furthest (Attache-Moi ICI & LA 58/100, Ex Votos 48/100), based on community performance votes.

Do Ex Votos and Attache-Moi ICI & LA smell similar?

Clearly different: a 21% scent match on Fragranxe. Both share musky and amber accords. Common notes include Beeswax, Ylang-Ylang and Angelica.

Is Ex Votos or Attache-Moi ICI & LA better for summer or winter?

Ex Votos suits evening wear; Attache-Moi ICI & LA suits evening wear. Based on community season votes.

What are the notes in Ex Votos and Attache-Moi ICI & LA?

Ex Votos has top notes of Beeswax and Exotic floral notes, heart notes of Goldenrod, Narcissus and Broom, a base of Ylang-Ylang, Deer Tongue Grass, Angelica and Resins. Attache-Moi ICI & LA has top notes of Black Pepper, Pink Pepper and Bergamot, heart notes of Chili Pepper, Orange Leaf, Nutmeg and Angelica, a base of Beeswax, Musk, Incense and Vanilla.