Fragrance comparison

Her My First vs Relax

Notes, accords, longevity, sillage, seasons and community ratings, side by side.

Updated 19 Oct 2026 5 ratings analysed

Her My First

Leesh Fragrances

5.002 votes

Rank #49,420 WoodyYellow Floral

Full profile Similar & dupes

20%scent match

Clearly different

1 wins

Relax

Armaf

4.673 votes

Rank #38,345 LeatherMusky

Full profile Similar & dupes

Quick verdict

Which one should you pick?

Relax takes 1 of 4 categories.

Her My First
Choose it for a woody and yellow floral character. Best in summer, daytime wear.
Relax
Choose it for a leather and musky character. Wins on fragranxe ranking. Best in fall, daytime wear.

Her My First0/4

Relax1/4

Ratings & consensus: Not scored
Community sentiment: Not scored
Longevity: Tie
Sillage & projection: Tie
Value for money: Tie
Versatility: Not scored
Note pyramid (duration): Not scored
Fragranxe ranking: Relax

Head-to-head breakdown

Every category side by side, with the winner called out.

Fragrance

Her My FirstLeesh Fragrances

RelaxArmaf

Winner

Ratings & consensus

Average rating and ownership split

5.00/ 5 · 2 votes

Have 100%Had 0%Want 0%

4.67/ 5 · 3 votes

Have 36%Had 3%Want 60%

Category winnerNot enough dataRating weighted by vote count

Community sentiment

How voters split from love to hate

100%Love

0%Like

0%Ok

0%Dislike

0%Hate

2 votes · too few to score

67%Love

33%Like

0%Ok

0%Dislike

0%Hate

3 votes · too few to score

Category winnerNot enough dataMost positive mix (25+ votes)

Longevity & sillage

0–100 community performance scores

⏱ Longevity80

〰 Sillage75

♥ Love / hate100

⏱ Longevity80

〰 Sillage75

♥ Love / hate92

Category winners

LongevityTie

SillageTie

Value for money

How fairly priced voters find it

¤ Price value100

Category winnerTieBest value score

Main accords

Strength of each scent family · outlined = shared by both

woody100%

yellow floral92%

white floral84%

vanilla77%

rose69%

powdery61%

leather100%

musky83%

animalic65%

powdery48%

smoky30%

Scent match20%Clearly different · both powdery

Note pyramid (duration)

Top, heart and base, with how long each lasts when known · gold = shared

Top15-30 mins

VanillaJasminePatchouliCedarwood

Heart2-4 hrs

Ylang-YlangRose

Base6-8+ hrs

MuskAmber

Top

BergamotPineappleRaspberry

Heart

Ylang-YlangOsmanthusJasmineMoss

Base

LeatherMuskCedarwoodAmber

InformationalShared notesJasmine, Cedarwood, Ylang-Ylang and Musk. Durations are only published for Her My First, so this is not scored.

Seasons & time of day

Relative to each fragrance's best season

Spring50

Summer100

Fall0

Winter0

Day100

Night64

Spring0

Summer0

Fall100

Winter0

Day100

Night–

Category winnerNot enough dataMost year-round

Who wears it

Gender appeal votes

Not enough votes yet

Date 30%Casual 28%Work 26%Party 16%

Men33

Unisex67

Women0

InformationalProfile onlyAudience is not scored

Ranking & credits

Fragranxe overall rank, nose and launch

Overall rank#49,420

PerfumerNot listed

Launched—

Reviews0

Overall rank#38,345

PerfumerNot listed

Launched—

Reviews1

Category winnerRelaxHigher overall rank

In a nutshell

Description & review snapshot

Her My First by Leesh Fragrances delivers an immediate flash of sweet vanilla, creamy jasmine petals, and earthy patchouli. The opening sprays hit with noticeable richness before clean cedarwood tempers the sweetness. As the scent warms on your skin, lush rose and tropical ylang-ylang emerge to create a soft, powdery …

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Armaf Relax starts with a bright splash of tart pineapple and sweet raspberry, grounded immediately by a sharp citrus edge of bergamot. As the initial fruitiness settles on the skin, a rich floral heart of ylang-ylang and mossy green tones emerges, creating an unexpected earthy contrast. The dry-down is dominated by a…

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InformationalRead bothTaste is personal

How we score: ratings blend public fragrance ratings with Fragranxe member votes; longevity, sillage, value and sentiment are community vote scores, and season bars are relative to each fragrance's strongest season. Categories with too little data are shown but not scored. The scent match weighs accord overlap (60%) and shared notes (40%). More in the FAQ.

Common questions

Straight answers from the data above.

Which is better, Her My First or Relax?

Relax takes 1 of 4 categories. Her My First is rated 5.00/5 from 2 votes; Relax is rated 4.67/5 from 3 votes. Choose Her My First for a woody and yellow floral character. Best in summer, daytime wear. Choose Relax for a leather and musky character. Wins on fragranxe ranking. Best in fall, daytime wear.

Which lasts longer, Her My First or Relax?

They last about the same: Her My First 80/100, Relax 80/100 for longevity in community votes.

Which projects more, Her My First or Relax?

Projection is very close: Her My First 75/100, Relax 75/100 for sillage.

Do Her My First and Relax smell similar?

Clearly different: a 20% scent match on Fragranxe. Both share powdery accords. Common notes include Jasmine, Cedarwood, Ylang-Ylang and Musk.

Is Her My First or Relax better for summer or winter?

Her My First suits daytime wear; Relax suits daytime wear. Based on community season votes.

What are the notes in Her My First and Relax?

Her My First has top notes of Vanilla, Jasmine, Patchouli and Cedarwood, heart notes of Ylang-Ylang and Rose, a base of Musk and Amber. Relax has top notes of Bergamot, Pineapple and Raspberry, heart notes of Ylang-Ylang, Osmanthus, Jasmine and Moss, a base of Leather, Musk, Cedarwood and Amber.