Fragrance comparison

Her Secret Desire vs N'Aimez Que Moi (2023)

Notes, accords, longevity, sillage, seasons and community ratings, side by side.

Updated 23 Oct 2026 629 ratings analysed

3 wins

Her Secret Desire

Antonio Banderas

3.80620 votes

Rank #13,387 PowderyVanilla

Full profile Similar & dupes

30%scent match

Clearly different

N'Aimez Que Moi (2023)

Caron

3.789 votes

Rank #50,150 IrisRose

Full profile Similar & dupes

Quick verdict

Which one should you pick?

Her Secret Desire takes 3 of 3 categories.

Her Secret Desire
Choose it for a powdery and vanilla character. Wins on longevity, sillage & projection and fragranxe ranking.
N'Aimez Que Moi (2023)
Choose it for a iris and rose character. Best in fall, daytime wear.

Her Secret Desire3/3

N'Aimez Que Moi (2023)0/3

Ratings & consensus: Not scored
Community sentiment: Not scored
Longevity: Her Secret Desire
Sillage & projection: Her Secret Desire
Value for money: Not scored
Versatility: Not scored
Note pyramid (duration): Not scored
Fragranxe ranking: Her Secret Desire

Head-to-head breakdown

Every category side by side, with the winner called out.

Fragrance

Her Secret DesireAntonio Banderas

N'Aimez Que Moi (2023)Caron

Winner

Ratings & consensus

Average rating and ownership split

3.80/ 5 · 620 votes

3.78/ 5 · 9 votes

Have 34%Had 0%Want 66%

Category winnerNot enough dataRating weighted by vote count

Community sentiment

How voters split from love to hate

Not enough votes yet

44%Love

22%Like

11%Ok

11%Dislike

11%Hate

9 votes · too few to score

Category winnerNot enough dataMost positive mix (25+ votes)

Longevity & sillage

0–100 community performance scores

⏱ Longevity73

〰 Sillage61

♥ Love / hate86

⏱ Longevity40

〰 Sillage25

♥ Love / hate69

Category winners

LongevityHer Secret Desire

SillageHer Secret Desire

Value for money

How fairly priced voters find it

¤ Price valueN/A

Category winnerNot enough dataBest value score

Main accords

Strength of each scent family · outlined = shared by both

powdery100%

vanilla92%

woody84%

fruity77%

sweet69%

violet61%

iris100%

rose90%

powdery80%

floral70%

violet60%

fresh50%

Scent match30%Clearly different · both powdery and violet

Note pyramid (duration)

Top, heart and base, with how long each lasts when known · gold = shared

Top

RaspberryBergamot

Heart

VioletOrrisIndian JasmineNeroli

Base

VanillaSandalwoodBalsam Fir

Notes

RoseOrrisLilacVioletVanillaVirginian CedarNeroliHaitian VetiverPatchouli

No top / heart / base split published

InformationalShared notesViolet, Orris, Neroli and Vanilla. Durations are only published for N'Aimez Que Moi (2023), so this is not scored.

Seasons & time of day

Relative to each fragrance's best season

No season votes yet

Spring33

Summer33

Fall100

Winter100

Day100

Night79

Category winnerNot enough dataMost year-round

Who wears it

Gender appeal votes

Not enough votes yet

Men0

Unisex50

Women50

Work 35%Casual 32%Date 24%Party 8%

InformationalProfile onlyAudience is not scored

Ranking & credits

Fragranxe overall rank, nose and launch

Overall rank#13,387

PerfumerNot listed

Launched—

Reviews30

Overall rank#50,150

PerfumerJean Jacques

Launched—

Reviews1

Category winnerHer Secret DesireHigher overall rank

In a nutshell

Description & review snapshot

A sweet, powdery vanilla with a soft raspberry lift, Her Secret Desire wears like an easy, affordable gourmand for someone who likes violet makeup-powder textures more than sharp fruit. The opening can feel boozy for a moment, then it settles into creamy vanilla, iris-toned florals, and light woods. Best for cooler we…

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Caron N'Aimez Que Moi (2023) smells like stepping straight into a classic Parisian dressing room. The lilac hits immediately. Fresh neroli and crushed violet petals lift the top before a wave of rich rose takes center stage. You get instant vintage cosmetic compact nostalgia. Within thirty minutes, buttery orris root …

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InformationalRead bothTaste is personal

How we score: ratings blend public fragrance ratings with Fragranxe member votes; longevity, sillage, value and sentiment are community vote scores, and season bars are relative to each fragrance's strongest season. Categories with too little data are shown but not scored. The scent match weighs accord overlap (60%) and shared notes (40%). More in the FAQ.

Common questions

Straight answers from the data above.

Which is better, Her Secret Desire or N'Aimez Que Moi (2023)?

Her Secret Desire takes 3 of 3 categories. Her Secret Desire is rated 3.80/5 from 620 votes; N'Aimez Que Moi (2023) is rated 3.78/5 from 9 votes. Choose Her Secret Desire for a powdery and vanilla character. Wins on longevity, sillage & projection and fragranxe ranking. Choose N'Aimez Que Moi (2023) for a iris and rose character. Best in fall, daytime wear.

Which lasts longer, Her Secret Desire or N'Aimez Que Moi (2023)?

Her Secret Desire lasts longest (Her Secret Desire 73/100, N'Aimez Que Moi (2023) 40/100), based on community performance votes.

Which projects more, Her Secret Desire or N'Aimez Que Moi (2023)?

Her Secret Desire projects furthest (Her Secret Desire 61/100, N'Aimez Que Moi (2023) 25/100), based on community performance votes.

Do Her Secret Desire and N'Aimez Que Moi (2023) smell similar?

Clearly different: a 30% scent match on Fragranxe. Both share powdery and violet accords. Common notes include Violet, Orris, Neroli and Vanilla.

Is Her Secret Desire or N'Aimez Que Moi (2023) better for summer or winter?

N'Aimez Que Moi (2023) suits daytime wear. Based on community season votes.

What are the notes in Her Secret Desire and N'Aimez Que Moi (2023)?

Her Secret Desire has top notes of Raspberry and Bergamot, heart notes of Violet, Orris, Indian Jasmine and Neroli, a base of Vanilla, Sandalwood and Balsam Fir. N'Aimez Que Moi (2023) features Rose, Orris, Lilac, Violet and Vanilla.