Fragrance comparison

I Am Tender vs Love Mist

Notes, accords, longevity, sillage, seasons and community ratings, side by side.

Updated 15 Nov 2026 3 ratings analysed

1 wins

I Am Tender

Bibliothèque de Parfum

4.333 votes

Rank #41,959 SweetFruity

Full profile Similar & dupes

32%scent match

Clearly different

Love Mist

kari

—0 votes

Rank #74,954 FloralWhite Floral

Full profile Similar & dupes

Quick verdict

Which one should you pick?

I Am Tender takes 1 of 1 categories.

I Am Tender
Choose it for a sweet and fruity character. Wins on fragranxe ranking. Best in fall, evening wear.
Love Mist
Choose it for a floral and white floral character.

I Am Tender1/1

Love Mist0/1

Ratings & consensus: Not scored
Community sentiment: Not scored
Longevity: Not scored
Sillage & projection: Not scored
Value for money: Not scored
Versatility: Not scored
Note pyramid (duration): Not scored
Fragranxe ranking: I Am Tender

Head-to-head breakdown

Every category side by side, with the winner called out.

Fragrance

I Am TenderBibliothèque de Parfum

Love Mistkari

Winner

Ratings & consensus

Average rating and ownership split

4.33/ 5 · 3 votes

Have 21%Had 11%Want 68%

—/ 5 · 0 votes

Category winnerNot enough dataRating weighted by vote count

Community sentiment

How voters split from love to hate

33%Love

67%Like

0%Ok

0%Dislike

0%Hate

3 votes · too few to score

Not enough votes yet

Category winnerNot enough dataMost positive mix (25+ votes)

Longevity & sillage

0–100 community performance scores

⏱ Longevity60

〰 Sillage50

♥ Love / hate83

⏱ LongevityN/A

〰 SillageN/A

♥ Love / hateN/A

Category winners

LongevityNo data

SillageNo data

Value for money

How fairly priced voters find it

¤ Price value50

¤ Price valueN/A

Category winnerNot enough dataBest value score

Main accords

Strength of each scent family · outlined = shared by both

sweet100%

fruity91%

vanilla83%

fresh74%

woody65%

chocolate56%

floral100%

white floral91%

fresh83%

fruity74%

musky65%

woody56%

Scent match32%Clearly different · both fruity, fresh and woody

Note pyramid (duration)

Top, heart and base, with how long each lasts when known · gold = shared

Top

StrawberryCoconutAlmondPeachLemon

Heart

Red BerriesChocolateBiscuitLily of the ValleyLilac

Base

VanillaGaiac WoodCoumarinMoss

Top

Cherry BlossomRed ApplePeach

Heart

Lily of the ValleyJasmineLilac

Base

Woody NotesMusk

InformationalShared notesPeach, Lily of the Valley and Lilac. Note durations are not published for these fragrances, so this is not scored.

Seasons & time of day

Relative to each fragrance's best season

Spring50

Summer0

Fall100

Winter50

Day33

Night100

No season votes yet

Category winnerNot enough dataMost year-round

Who wears it

Gender appeal votes

Men0

Unisex0

Women100

Not enough votes yet

InformationalProfile onlyAudience is not scored

Ranking & credits

Fragranxe overall rank, nose and launch

Overall rank#41,959

PerfumerFernanda Russo

Launched—

Reviews3

Overall rank#74,954

PerfumerNot listed

Launched—

Reviews0

Category winnerI Am TenderHigher overall rank

In a nutshell

Description & review snapshot

I Am Tender is a fruity gourmand that leans dessert-like without turning syrupy for everyone. It opens with sweet, bright fruit and coconut, then settles into a chocolate-praline idea with vanilla in the base, plus a soft floral edge in the background. If you like chocolate done smoothly, this can feel comforting and …

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Love Mist by kari delivers a soft, breezy burst of cherry blossom and red apple that settles into a quiet, clean floral skin scent. It is designed for casual daytime wear, offering a light and uncomplicated misting of sweet spring fruit and delicate white petals for warm afternoons.

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InformationalRead bothTaste is personal

How we score: ratings blend public fragrance ratings with Fragranxe member votes; longevity, sillage, value and sentiment are community vote scores, and season bars are relative to each fragrance's strongest season. Categories with too little data are shown but not scored. The scent match weighs accord overlap (60%) and shared notes (40%). More in the FAQ.

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Common questions

Straight answers from the data above.

Do I Am Tender and Love Mist smell similar?

Clearly different: a 32% scent match on Fragranxe. Both share fruity, fresh and woody accords. Common notes include Peach, Lily of the Valley and Lilac.

Is I Am Tender or Love Mist better for summer or winter?

I Am Tender suits evening wear. Based on community season votes.

What are the notes in I Am Tender and Love Mist?

I Am Tender has top notes of Strawberry, Coconut, Almond and Peach, heart notes of Red Berries, Chocolate, Biscuit and Lily of the Valley, a base of Vanilla, Gaiac Wood, Coumarin and Moss. Love Mist has top notes of Cherry Blossom, Red Apple and Peach, heart notes of Lily of the Valley, Jasmine and Lilac, a base of Woody Notes and Musk.