Fragrance comparison

I Am Tender vs N.14

Notes, accords, longevity, sillage, seasons and community ratings, side by side.

Updated 21 Oct 2026 3 ratings analysed

1 wins

I Am Tender

Bibliothèque de Parfum

4.333 votes

Rank #37,953 SweetFruity

Full profile Similar & dupes

42%scent match

Some overlap

N.14

InEstasy

—0 votes

Rank #72,647 SweetWarm Spicy

Full profile Similar & dupes

Quick verdict

Which one should you pick?

I Am Tender takes 1 of 1 categories.

I Am Tender
Choose it for a sweet and fruity character. Wins on fragranxe ranking. Best in fall, evening wear.
N.14
Choose it for a sweet and warm spicy character.

I Am Tender1/1

N.140/1

Ratings & consensus: Not scored
Community sentiment: Not scored
Longevity: Not scored
Sillage & projection: Not scored
Value for money: Not scored
Versatility: Not scored
Note pyramid (duration): Not scored
Fragranxe ranking: I Am Tender

Head-to-head breakdown

Every category side by side, with the winner called out.

Fragrance

I Am TenderBibliothèque de Parfum

N.14InEstasy

Winner

Ratings & consensus

Average rating and ownership split

4.33/ 5 · 3 votes

Have 21%Had 11%Want 68%

—/ 5 · 0 votes

Have 0%Had 50%Want 50%

Category winnerNot enough dataRating weighted by vote count

Community sentiment

How voters split from love to hate

33%Love

67%Like

0%Ok

0%Dislike

0%Hate

3 votes · too few to score

Not enough votes yet

Category winnerNot enough dataMost positive mix (25+ votes)

Longevity & sillage

0–100 community performance scores

⏱ Longevity60

〰 Sillage50

♥ Love / hate83

⏱ LongevityN/A

〰 SillageN/A

♥ Love / hateN/A

Category winners

LongevityNo data

SillageNo data

Value for money

How fairly priced voters find it

¤ Price value50

¤ Price valueN/A

Category winnerNot enough dataBest value score

Main accords

Strength of each scent family · outlined = shared by both

sweet100%

fruity91%

vanilla83%

fresh74%

woody65%

chocolate56%

sweet100%

warm spicy92%

vanilla84%

rose77%

patchouli69%

fruity61%

Scent match42%Some overlap · both sweet, vanilla and fruity

Note pyramid (duration)

Top, heart and base, with how long each lasts when known · gold = shared

Top

StrawberryCoconutAlmondPeachLemon

Heart

Red BerriesChocolateBiscuitLily of the ValleyLilac

Base

VanillaGaiac WoodCoumarinMoss

Notes

RoseRed BerriesPatchouliVanillaChocolateWhite Musk

No top / heart / base split published

InformationalShared notesRed Berries, Chocolate and Vanilla. Note durations are not published for these fragrances, so this is not scored.

Seasons & time of day

Relative to each fragrance's best season

Spring50

Summer0

Fall100

Winter50

Day33

Night100

No season votes yet

Category winnerNot enough dataMost year-round

Who wears it

Gender appeal votes

Men0

Unisex0

Women100

Not enough votes yet

InformationalProfile onlyAudience is not scored

Ranking & credits

Fragranxe overall rank, nose and launch

Overall rank#37,953

PerfumerFernanda Russo

Launched—

Reviews3

Overall rank#72,647

PerfumerNot listed

Launched—

Reviews0

Category winnerI Am TenderHigher overall rank

In a nutshell

Description & review snapshot

I Am Tender is a fruity gourmand that leans dessert-like without turning syrupy for everyone. It opens with sweet, bright fruit and coconut, then settles into a chocolate-praline idea with vanilla in the base, plus a soft floral edge in the background. If you like chocolate done smoothly, this can feel comforting and …

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N.14 by InEstasy is a sweet, floral-gourmand fragrance built around a core of rose, red berries, and deep vanilla. It centers on a prominent chocolate-patchouli accord, making it a warming choice for cooler weather. This scent offers a cozy profile for women who enjoy rich, long-lasting sweetness throughout autumn and…

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InformationalRead bothTaste is personal

How we score: ratings blend public fragrance ratings with Fragranxe member votes; longevity, sillage, value and sentiment are community vote scores, and season bars are relative to each fragrance's strongest season. Categories with too little data are shown but not scored. The scent match weighs accord overlap (60%) and shared notes (40%). More in the FAQ.

Common questions

Straight answers from the data above.

Do I Am Tender and N.14 smell similar?

Some overlap: a 42% scent match on Fragranxe. Both share sweet, vanilla and fruity accords. Common notes include Red Berries, Chocolate and Vanilla.

Is I Am Tender or N.14 better for summer or winter?

I Am Tender suits evening wear. Based on community season votes.

What are the notes in I Am Tender and N.14?

I Am Tender has top notes of Strawberry, Coconut, Almond and Peach, heart notes of Red Berries, Chocolate, Biscuit and Lily of the Valley, a base of Vanilla, Gaiac Wood, Coumarin and Moss. N.14 features Rose, Red Berries, Patchouli, Vanilla and Chocolate.