Fragrance comparison

Meet Me vs Ruby Lady

Notes, accords, longevity, sillage, seasons and community ratings, side by side.

Updated 9 Oct 2026 5 ratings analysed

Meet Me

HOSTLESS

3.673 votes

Rank #57,489 AmberPatchouli

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20%scent match

Clearly different

3 wins

Ruby Lady

Parli Parfum

4.002 votes

Rank #55,075 FruitySweet

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Quick verdict

Which one should you pick?

Ruby Lady takes 3 of 4 categories.

Meet Me
Choose it for a amber and patchouli character. Wins on longevity. Best in spring, daytime wear.
Ruby Lady
Choose it for a fruity and sweet character. Wins on sillage & projection, value for money and fragranxe ranking. Best in spring, daytime wear.

Meet Me1/4

Ruby Lady3/4

Ratings & consensus: Not scored
Community sentiment: Not scored
Longevity: Meet Me
Sillage & projection: Ruby Lady
Value for money: Ruby Lady
Versatility: Not scored
Note pyramid (duration): Not scored
Fragranxe ranking: Ruby Lady

Head-to-head breakdown

Every category side by side, with the winner called out.

Fragrance

Meet MeHOSTLESS

Ruby LadyParli Parfum

Winner

Ratings & consensus

Average rating and ownership split

3.67/ 5 · 3 votes

Have 17%Had 0%Want 83%

4.00/ 5 · 2 votes

Have 17%Had 28%Want 56%

Category winnerNot enough dataRating weighted by vote count

Community sentiment

How voters split from love to hate

67%Love

0%Like

0%Ok

0%Dislike

33%Hate

3 votes · too few to score

0%Love

100%Like

0%Ok

0%Dislike

0%Hate

2 votes · too few to score

Category winnerNot enough dataMost positive mix (25+ votes)

Longevity & sillage

0–100 community performance scores

⏱ Longevity64

〰 Sillage55

♥ Love / hate67

⏱ Longevity35

〰 Sillage63

♥ Love / hate75

Category winners

LongevityMeet Me

SillageRuby Lady

Value for money

How fairly priced voters find it

¤ Price value60

¤ Price value88

Category winnerRuby LadyBest value score

Main accords

Strength of each scent family

amber100%

patchouli83%

earthy65%

warm spicy48%

balsamic30%

fruity100%

sweet83%

floral65%

citrus48%

fresh30%

Scent match20%Clearly different

Note pyramid (duration)

Top, heart and base, with how long each lasts when known · gold = shared

Top20-30 mins

Black CurrantRaspberryBergamot

Heart2-3 hrs

JasmineFreesiaRose

Base6-8+ hrs

PatchouliAmberSandalwood

Top

CitrusesStrawberryBlack CurrantRed Apple

Heart

Sweet PeaFreesiaRoseJasmine

Base

RaspberrySandalwoodMuskAmber

InformationalShared notesBlack Currant, Raspberry, Jasmine and Freesia. Durations are only published for Meet Me, so this is not scored.

Seasons & time of day

Relative to each fragrance's best season

Spring100

Summer0

Fall100

Winter50

Day100

Night53

Spring100

Summer50

Fall50

Winter50

Day100

Night50

Category winnerNot enough dataMost year-round

Who wears it

Gender appeal votes

Men0

Unisex0

Women100

Casual 34%Work 30%Date 24%Party 12%

Men0

Unisex0

Women100

InformationalProfile onlyAudience is not scored

Ranking & credits

Fragranxe overall rank, nose and launch

Overall rank#57,489

PerfumerNot listed

Launched—

Reviews0

Overall rank#55,075

PerfumerNot listed

Launched—

Reviews0

Category winnerRuby LadyHigher overall rank

In a nutshell

Description & review snapshot

Meet Me by HOSTLESS pairs tart fruit with an earthy, resinous base. The first spray releases a tangy burst of black currant, ripe raspberry, and bright bergamot. That initial sweetness softens rapidly. Within twenty minutes, a dewy floral heart of rose, freesia, and jasmine steps forward to smooth out the initial tang…

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Ruby Lady by Parli Parfum opens with a bright splash of strawberry, black currant, and crisp red apple backed by a tart touch of citruses. As the vibrant opening settles, soft floral notes of sweet pea, freesia, rose, and jasmine emerge to balance the initial fruitiness on your skin. The scent finishes on a gentle bas…

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InformationalRead bothTaste is personal

How we score: ratings blend public fragrance ratings with Fragranxe member votes; longevity, sillage, value and sentiment are community vote scores, and season bars are relative to each fragrance's strongest season. Categories with too little data are shown but not scored. The scent match weighs accord overlap (60%) and shared notes (40%). More in the FAQ.

Common questions

Straight answers from the data above.

Which is better, Meet Me or Ruby Lady?

Ruby Lady takes 3 of 4 categories. Meet Me is rated 3.67/5 from 3 votes; Ruby Lady is rated 4.00/5 from 2 votes. Choose Meet Me for a amber and patchouli character. Wins on longevity. Best in spring, daytime wear. Choose Ruby Lady for a fruity and sweet character. Wins on sillage & projection, value for money and fragranxe ranking. Best in spring, daytime wear.

Which lasts longer, Meet Me or Ruby Lady?

Meet Me lasts longest (Meet Me 64/100, Ruby Lady 35/100), based on community performance votes.

Which projects more, Meet Me or Ruby Lady?

Ruby Lady projects furthest (Ruby Lady 63/100, Meet Me 55/100), based on community performance votes.

Do Meet Me and Ruby Lady smell similar?

Clearly different: a 20% scent match on Fragranxe. They share few main accords. Common notes include Black Currant, Raspberry, Jasmine and Freesia.

Is Meet Me or Ruby Lady better for summer or winter?

Meet Me suits daytime wear; Ruby Lady suits daytime wear. Based on community season votes.

What are the notes in Meet Me and Ruby Lady?

Meet Me has top notes of Black Currant, Raspberry and Bergamot, heart notes of Jasmine, Freesia and Rose, a base of Patchouli, Amber and Sandalwood. Ruby Lady has top notes of Citruses, Strawberry, Black Currant and Red Apple, heart notes of Sweet Pea, Freesia, Rose and Jasmine, a base of Raspberry, Sandalwood, Musk and Amber.