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Patchouli Memory vs Polyamory

Notes, accords, longevity, sillage, seasons and community ratings, side by side.

Updated 27 ratings analysed
Some overlap
Quick verdict

Which one should you pick?

Patchouli Memory takes 3 of 4 categories.

  • Patchouli Memory

    Choose it for a woody and patchouli character. Wins on longevity, value for money and fragranxe ranking. Best in winter, day or night wear.

  • Polyamory

    Choose it for a woody and aromatic character. Wins on sillage & projection. Best in spring, day or night wear.

Patchouli Memory3/4
Polyamory1/4
Ratings & consensus
Not scored
Community sentiment
Not scored
Longevity
Patchouli Memory
Sillage & projection
Polyamory
Value for money
Patchouli Memory
Versatility
Not scored
Note pyramid (duration)
Not scored
Fragranxe ranking
Patchouli Memory

Head-to-head breakdown

Every category side by side, with the winner called out.

Fragrance
Patchouli MemoryEx Nihilo
PolyamoryPerfume Cult
Winner

Ratings & consensus

Average rating and ownership split
4.08/ 5 · 24 votes
Have 29%Had 3%Want 68%
4.67/ 5 · 3 votes
Have 19%Had 0%Want 81%
Category winnerNot enough dataRating weighted by vote count

Community sentiment

How voters split from love to hate
42%Love
38%Like
8%Ok
13%Dislike
0%Hate

24 votes · too few to score

67%Love
33%Like
0%Ok
0%Dislike
0%Hate

3 votes · too few to score

Category winnerNot enough dataMost positive mix (25+ votes)

Longevity & sillage

0–100 community performance scores
⏱ Longevity66
〰 Sillage61
♥ Love / hate77
⏱ Longevity53
〰 Sillage63
♥ Love / hate92
Category winners

LongevityPatchouli Memory

SillagePolyamory

Value for money

How fairly priced voters find it
¤ Price value38
¤ Price value25
Category winnerPatchouli MemoryBest value score

Main accords

Strength of each scent family · outlined = shared by both
woody100%
patchouli86%
warm spicy72%
oud58%
yellow floral44%
earthy30%
woody100%
aromatic92%
warm spicy84%
fresh spicy77%
sweet69%
musky61%
Scent match40%Some overlap · both woody and warm spicy

Note pyramid (duration)

Top, heart and base, with how long each lasts when known · gold = shared
Top20-30 mins
BergamotClary SagePink Pepper
Heart2-4 hrs
Ylang-YlangNutmegJasmine
Base6-8+ hrs
PatchouliAkigalawoodCedarwoodLabdanumVanilla
Top
CypressPineappleBergamotLavenderLemonAppleMandarin Orange
Heart
Palisander RosewoodCardamomNutmegRoseJasmineelemi
Base
MuskPatchouliCedarwoodMossTonka BeanLabdanumVanillaMaltol
InformationalShared notesBergamot, Nutmeg, Jasmine and Patchouli. Durations are only published for Patchouli Memory, so this is not scored.

Seasons & time of day

Relative to each fragrance's best season
Spring67
Summer42
Fall83
Winter100
Day100
Night100
Spring100
Summer100
Fall100
Winter0
Day100
Night100
Category winnerNot enough dataMost year-round

Who wears it

Gender appeal votes
Men30
Unisex60
Women10
Men50
Unisex50
Women0
InformationalProfile onlyAudience is not scored

Ranking & credits

Fragranxe overall rank, nose and launch

Overall rank#35,607

PerfumerJordi Fernández

Launched—

Reviews3

Overall rank#50,241

PerfumerLaure Breysse

Launched—

Reviews0

Category winnerPatchouli MemoryHigher overall rank

In a nutshell

Description & review snapshot

Patchouli Memory by Ex Nihilo reimagines a notoriously heavy ingredient as something crisp, modern, and surprisingly airy. The scent opens with a lively splash of bergamot and cracked pink pepper, cut through with clean herbal clary sage instead of dark smoke. As it settles onto skin, sunny ylang-ylang and nutmeg soft…

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Polyamory by Perfume Cult is a bright woody gourmand with a lively fruit and citrus opening, then a warmer heart of rosewood, cardamom, nutmeg, rose, jasmine and elemi. The dry-down settles into musk, patchouli, cedarwood, moss, tonka, vanilla, maltol, labdanum and amber. It suits someone who likes sweet, aromatic, sp…

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InformationalRead bothTaste is personal

How we score: ratings blend public fragrance ratings with Fragranxe member votes; longevity, sillage, value and sentiment are community vote scores, and season bars are relative to each fragrance's strongest season. Categories with too little data are shown but not scored. The scent match weighs accord overlap (60%) and shared notes (40%). More in the FAQ.

Recent comparisons

Head-to-head activity from live history

Common questions

Straight answers from the data above.

Which is better, Patchouli Memory or Polyamory?

Patchouli Memory takes 3 of 4 categories. Patchouli Memory is rated 4.08/5 from 24 votes; Polyamory is rated 4.67/5 from 3 votes. Choose Patchouli Memory for a woody and patchouli character. Wins on longevity, value for money and fragranxe ranking. Best in winter, day or night wear. Choose Polyamory for a woody and aromatic character. Wins on sillage & projection. Best in spring, day or night wear.

Which lasts longer, Patchouli Memory or Polyamory?

Patchouli Memory lasts longest (Patchouli Memory 66/100, Polyamory 53/100), based on community performance votes.

Which projects more, Patchouli Memory or Polyamory?

Projection is very close: Polyamory 63/100, Patchouli Memory 61/100 for sillage.

Do Patchouli Memory and Polyamory smell similar?

Some overlap: a 40% scent match on Fragranxe. Both share woody and warm spicy accords. Common notes include Bergamot, Nutmeg, Jasmine and Patchouli.

Is Patchouli Memory or Polyamory better for summer or winter?

Patchouli Memory suits day or night wear; Polyamory suits day or night wear. Based on community season votes.

What are the notes in Patchouli Memory and Polyamory?

Patchouli Memory has top notes of Bergamot, Clary Sage and Pink Pepper, heart notes of Ylang-Ylang, Nutmeg and Jasmine, a base of Patchouli, Akigalawood, Cedarwood and Labdanum. Polyamory has top notes of Cypress, Pineapple, Bergamot and Lavender, heart notes of Palisander Rosewood, Cardamom, Nutmeg and Rose, a base of Musk, Patchouli, Cedarwood and Moss.

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