Fragrance comparison

She & Male vs A Mes Amours

Notes, accords, longevity, sillage, seasons and community ratings, side by side.

Updated 19 Oct 2026 57 ratings analysed

1 wins

She & Male

LEN Fragrances

3.8157 votes

Rank #26,223 EarthyWoody

Full profile Similar & dupes

50%scent match

Some overlap

A Mes Amours

Ann Steeger

—0 votes

Rank #70,757 AromaticWoody

Full profile Similar & dupes

Quick verdict

Which one should you pick?

She & Male takes 1 of 1 categories.

She & Male
Choose it for a earthy and woody character. Wins on fragranxe ranking. Best in fall, daytime wear.
A Mes Amours
Choose it for a aromatic and woody character.

She & Male1/1

A Mes Amours0/1

Ratings & consensus: Not scored
Community sentiment: Not scored
Longevity: Not scored
Sillage & projection: Not scored
Value for money: Not scored
Versatility: Not scored
Note pyramid (duration): Not scored
Fragranxe ranking: She & Male

Head-to-head breakdown

Every category side by side, with the winner called out.

Fragrance

She & MaleLEN Fragrances

A Mes AmoursAnn Steeger

Winner

Ratings & consensus

Average rating and ownership split

3.81/ 5 · 57 votes

Have 28%Had 7%Want 64%

—/ 5 · 0 votes

Have 13%Had 0%Want 88%

Category winnerNot enough dataRating weighted by vote count

Community sentiment

How voters split from love to hate

32%Love

40%Like

11%Ok

12%Dislike

5%Hate

57 votes

Not enough votes yet

Category winnerNot enough dataMost positive mix (25+ votes)

Longevity & sillage

0–100 community performance scores

⏱ Longevity71

〰 Sillage60

♥ Love / hate70

⏱ LongevityN/A

〰 SillageN/A

♥ Love / hateN/A

Category winners

LongevityNo data

SillageNo data

Value for money

How fairly priced voters find it

¤ Price value39

¤ Price valueN/A

Category winnerNot enough dataBest value score

Main accords

Strength of each scent family · outlined = shared by both

earthy100%

woody92%

iris84%

mossy77%

aromatic69%

powdery61%

aromatic100%

woody92%

earthy84%

rose77%

white floral69%

citrus61%

Scent match50%Some overlap · both earthy, woody and aromatic

Note pyramid (duration)

Top, heart and base, with how long each lasts when known · gold = shared

Top20-30 mins

Iris

Heart3-4 hrs

VetiverNeroli

Base8-10+ hrs

Moss

Top

NeroliSageLemon VerbenaGeraniumYlang-Ylang

Heart

RoseLily-of-the-Valley

Base

VetiverPatchouliIrisMoss

InformationalShared notesIris, Vetiver, Neroli and Moss. Durations are only published for She & Male, so this is not scored.

Seasons & time of day

Relative to each fragrance's best season

Spring62

Summer24

Fall100

Winter57

Day100

Night73

No season votes yet

Category winnerNot enough dataMost year-round

Who wears it

Gender appeal votes

Men3

Unisex44

Women53

Work 33%Casual 29%Date 26%Party 13%

Not enough votes yet

InformationalProfile onlyAudience is not scored

Ranking & credits

Fragranxe overall rank, nose and launch

Overall rank#26,223

PerfumerMichel Almairac

Launched—

Reviews4

Overall rank#70,757

PerfumerAnn Steeger

Launched—

Reviews0

Category winnerShe & MaleHigher overall rank

In a nutshell

Description & review snapshot

She & Male by LEN Fragrances opens with a sharp flash of cool iris root and bright neroli. It feels chilled. Within ten minutes, that initial cosmetic sharpness softens into a smooth, velvety powder. Haitian vetiver steps forward to ground the floral lift with an earthy, clean grassiness. The composition never turns o…

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A Mes Amours opens with a sharp burst of lemon verbena, crushed sage leaves, and bitter neroli. The initial spray feels green and crisp, carrying a herbal snap that leans traditional rather than modern. Within twenty minutes, the citrus edge softens as quiet rose and lily-of-the-valley emerge, keeping the floral tone …

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InformationalRead bothTaste is personal

How we score: ratings blend public fragrance ratings with Fragranxe member votes; longevity, sillage, value and sentiment are community vote scores, and season bars are relative to each fragrance's strongest season. Categories with too little data are shown but not scored. The scent match weighs accord overlap (60%) and shared notes (40%). More in the FAQ.

Common questions

Straight answers from the data above.

Do She & Male and A Mes Amours smell similar?

Some overlap: a 50% scent match on Fragranxe. Both share earthy, woody and aromatic accords. Common notes include Iris, Vetiver, Neroli and Moss.

Is She & Male or A Mes Amours better for summer or winter?

She & Male suits daytime wear. Based on community season votes.

What are the notes in She & Male and A Mes Amours?

She & Male has top notes of Iris, heart notes of Vetiver and Neroli, a base of Moss. A Mes Amours has top notes of Neroli, Sage, Lemon Verbena and Geranium, heart notes of Rose and Lily-of-the-Valley, a base of Vetiver, Patchouli, Iris and Moss.