@theselfielover vs M3
Notes, accords, longevity, sillage, seasons and community ratings, side by side.
Which one should you pick?
@theselfielover takes 4 of 4 categories.
@theselfieloverChoose it for a woody and musky character. Wins on longevity, sillage & projection and value for money. Best in fall, day or night wear.
M3Choose it for a citrus and musky character. Best in spring, daytime wear.
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- Longevity
- @theselfielover
- Sillage & projection
- @theselfielover
- Value for money
- @theselfielover
- Versatility
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- Note pyramid (duration)
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Head-to-head breakdown
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Ratings & consensus
Average rating and ownership splitCommunity sentiment
How voters split from love to hate1 vote · too few to score
1 vote · too few to score
Longevity & sillage
0–100 community performance scoresLongevity@theselfielover
Sillage@theselfielover
Value for money
How fairly priced voters find itMain accords
Strength of each scent family · outlined = shared by bothNote pyramid (duration)
Top, heart and base, with how long each lasts when known · gold = sharedSeasons & time of day
Relative to each fragrance's best seasonWho wears it
Gender appeal votesRanking & credits
Fragranxe overall rank, nose and launchOverall rank#54,080
PerfumerNot listed
Launched2022
Reviews0
Overall rank#71,914
PerfumerNot listed
Launched—
Reviews0
In a nutshell
Description & review snapshot@theselfielover by The Social Scent opens with sharp bergamot and sweet orange blossom before tuberose takes center stage. Indian jasmine adds weight to the floral heart, while Madagascar vanilla and white musk soften the finish. Virginia cedar provides a dry wooden base that keeps the sweetness grounded.
Reviews →M3 is a bright floral that opens with bergamot, mandarin, and a soft peach accent before tuberose, rose, and jasmine take over. The dry-down shifts into white musk, amber, and cedar, giving it a cleaner, slightly powdery finish. It reads feminine first, polished, and easy to wear if you like florals with a fresh citru…
Reviews →How we score: ratings blend public fragrance ratings with Fragranxe member votes; longevity, sillage, value and sentiment are community vote scores, and season bars are relative to each fragrance's strongest season. Categories with too little data are shown but not scored. The scent match weighs accord overlap (60%) and shared notes (40%). More in the FAQ.
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♛Common questions
Straight answers from the data above.
Which is better, @theselfielover or M3?
@theselfielover takes 4 of 4 categories. @theselfielover is rated 5.00/5 from 1 votes; M3 is rated 3.00/5 from 1 votes. Choose @theselfielover for a woody and musky character. Wins on longevity, sillage & projection and value for money. Best in fall, day or night wear. Choose M3 for a citrus and musky character. Best in spring, daytime wear.
Which lasts longer, @theselfielover or M3?
@theselfielover lasts longest (@theselfielover 100/100, M3 70/100), based on community performance votes.
Which projects more, @theselfielover or M3?
@theselfielover projects furthest (@theselfielover 75/100, M3 50/100), based on community performance votes.
Do @theselfielover and M3 smell similar?
Some overlap: a 40% scent match on Fragranxe. Both share musky and powdery accords. Common notes include Bergamot, Tuberose, Indian Jasmine and Virginia Cedar.
Is @theselfielover or M3 better for summer or winter?
@theselfielover suits day or night wear; M3 suits daytime wear. Based on community season votes.
What are the notes in @theselfielover and M3?
@theselfielover has top notes of Orange Blossom and Bergamot, heart notes of Tuberose and Indian Jasmine, a base of Virginia Cedar, White Musk and Madagascar Vanilla. M3 has top notes of Bergamot, Peach and Mandarin Orange, heart notes of Tuberose, Rose and Indian Jasmine, a base of White Musk, Amber and Virginia Cedar.
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