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@theselfielover vs M3

Notes, accords, longevity, sillage, seasons and community ratings, side by side.

Updated 2 ratings analysed
Some overlap
Quick verdict

Which one should you pick?

@theselfielover takes 4 of 4 categories.

  • @theselfielover

    Choose it for a woody and musky character. Wins on longevity, sillage & projection and value for money. Best in fall, day or night wear.

  • M3

    Choose it for a citrus and musky character. Best in spring, daytime wear.

@theselfielover4/4
M30/4
Ratings & consensus
Not scored
Community sentiment
Not scored
Longevity
@theselfielover
Sillage & projection
@theselfielover
Value for money
@theselfielover
Versatility
Not scored
Note pyramid (duration)
Not scored
Fragranxe ranking
@theselfielover

Head-to-head breakdown

Every category side by side, with the winner called out.

Fragrance
@theselfieloverThe Social Scent
M3Michael Cinco
Winner

Ratings & consensus

Average rating and ownership split
5.00/ 5 · 1 votes
Have 67%Had 0%Want 33%
3.00/ 5 · 1 votes
Have 29%Had 0%Want 71%
Category winnerNot enough dataRating weighted by vote count

Community sentiment

How voters split from love to hate
100%Love
0%Like
0%Ok
0%Dislike
0%Hate

1 vote · too few to score

0%Love
0%Like
100%Ok
0%Dislike
0%Hate

1 vote · too few to score

Category winnerNot enough dataMost positive mix (25+ votes)

Longevity & sillage

0–100 community performance scores
⏱ Longevity100
〰 Sillage75
♥ Love / hate100
⏱ Longevity70
〰 Sillage50
♥ Love / hate50
Category winners

Longevity@theselfielover

Sillage@theselfielover

Value for money

How fairly priced voters find it
¤ Price value100
¤ Price value38
Category winner@theselfieloverBest value score

Main accords

Strength of each scent family · outlined = shared by both
woody88%
musky65%
powdery30%
citrus100%
musky90%
tuberose80%
fresh spicy70%
powdery60%
fruity50%
Scent match40%Some overlap · both musky and powdery

Note pyramid (duration)

Top, heart and base, with how long each lasts when known · gold = shared
Top
Orange BlossomBergamot
Heart
TuberoseIndian Jasmine
Base
Virginia CedarWhite MuskMadagascar Vanilla
Top
BergamotPeachMandarin Orange
Heart
TuberoseRoseIndian Jasmine
Base
White MuskAmberVirginia Cedar
InformationalShared notesBergamot, Tuberose, Indian Jasmine and Virginia Cedar. Note durations are not published for these fragrances, so this is not scored.

Seasons & time of day

Relative to each fragrance's best season
Spring50
Summer0
Fall100
Winter100
Day100
Night100
Spring100
Summer50
Fall50
Winter50
Day100
Night50
Category winnerNot enough dataMost year-round

Who wears it

Gender appeal votes
Men100
Unisex0
Women0
Men0
Unisex33
Women67
InformationalProfile onlyAudience is not scored

Ranking & credits

Fragranxe overall rank, nose and launch

Overall rank#54,080

PerfumerNot listed

Launched2022

Reviews0

Overall rank#71,914

PerfumerNot listed

Launched—

Reviews0

Category winner@theselfieloverHigher overall rank

In a nutshell

Description & review snapshot

@theselfielover by The Social Scent opens with sharp bergamot and sweet orange blossom before tuberose takes center stage. Indian jasmine adds weight to the floral heart, while Madagascar vanilla and white musk soften the finish. Virginia cedar provides a dry wooden base that keeps the sweetness grounded.

Reviews →

M3 is a bright floral that opens with bergamot, mandarin, and a soft peach accent before tuberose, rose, and jasmine take over. The dry-down shifts into white musk, amber, and cedar, giving it a cleaner, slightly powdery finish. It reads feminine first, polished, and easy to wear if you like florals with a fresh citru…

Reviews →
InformationalRead bothTaste is personal

How we score: ratings blend public fragrance ratings with Fragranxe member votes; longevity, sillage, value and sentiment are community vote scores, and season bars are relative to each fragrance's strongest season. Categories with too little data are shown but not scored. The scent match weighs accord overlap (60%) and shared notes (40%). More in the FAQ.

Recent comparisons

Head-to-head activity from live history

Common questions

Straight answers from the data above.

Which is better, @theselfielover or M3?

@theselfielover takes 4 of 4 categories. @theselfielover is rated 5.00/5 from 1 votes; M3 is rated 3.00/5 from 1 votes. Choose @theselfielover for a woody and musky character. Wins on longevity, sillage & projection and value for money. Best in fall, day or night wear. Choose M3 for a citrus and musky character. Best in spring, daytime wear.

Which lasts longer, @theselfielover or M3?

@theselfielover lasts longest (@theselfielover 100/100, M3 70/100), based on community performance votes.

Which projects more, @theselfielover or M3?

@theselfielover projects furthest (@theselfielover 75/100, M3 50/100), based on community performance votes.

Do @theselfielover and M3 smell similar?

Some overlap: a 40% scent match on Fragranxe. Both share musky and powdery accords. Common notes include Bergamot, Tuberose, Indian Jasmine and Virginia Cedar.

Is @theselfielover or M3 better for summer or winter?

@theselfielover suits day or night wear; M3 suits daytime wear. Based on community season votes.

What are the notes in @theselfielover and M3?

@theselfielover has top notes of Orange Blossom and Bergamot, heart notes of Tuberose and Indian Jasmine, a base of Virginia Cedar, White Musk and Madagascar Vanilla. M3 has top notes of Bergamot, Peach and Mandarin Orange, heart notes of Tuberose, Rose and Indian Jasmine, a base of White Musk, Amber and Virginia Cedar.

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