Fragrance comparison

What About ME? vs United Dreams Together for Him

Notes, accords, longevity, sillage, seasons and community ratings, side by side.

Updated 19 Oct 2026 210 ratings analysed

What About ME?

Lengling

3.8723 votes

Rank #42,519 WoodyFresh Spicy

Full profile Similar & dupes

61%scent match

Closely related

3 wins

United Dreams Together for Him

Benetton

3.86187 votes

Rank #13,969 Fresh SpicyAromatic

Full profile Similar & dupes

Quick verdict

Which one should you pick?

United Dreams Together for Him takes 3 of 5 categories.

What About ME?
Choose it for a woody and fresh spicy character. Wins on longevity and sillage & projection. Best in spring, day or night wear.
United Dreams Together for Him
Choose it for a fresh spicy and aromatic character. Wins on ratings & consensus, value for money and fragranxe ranking. Best in spring.

What About ME?2/5

United Dreams Together for Him3/5

Ratings & consensus: United Dreams Together for Him
Community sentiment: Not scored
Longevity: What About ME?
Sillage & projection: What About ME?
Value for money: United Dreams Together for Him
Versatility: Not scored
Note pyramid (duration): Not scored
Fragranxe ranking: United Dreams Together for Him

Head-to-head breakdown

Every category side by side, with the winner called out.

Fragrance

What About ME?Lengling

United Dreams Together for HimBenetton

Winner

Ratings & consensus

Average rating and ownership split

3.87/ 5 · 23 votes

Have 31%Had 9%Want 60%

3.86/ 5 · 187 votes

Have 76%Had 24%Want 0%

Category winnerUnited Dreams Together for HimRating weighted by vote count

Community sentiment

How voters split from love to hate

39%Love

17%Like

35%Ok

9%Dislike

0%Hate

23 votes · too few to score

28%Love

45%Like

20%Ok

6%Dislike

1%Hate

176 votes

Category winnerNot enough dataMost positive mix (25+ votes)

Longevity & sillage

0–100 community performance scores

⏱ Longevity72

〰 Sillage60

♥ Love / hate72

⏱ Longevity55

〰 Sillage44

♥ Love / hate73

Category winners

LongevityWhat About ME?

SillageWhat About ME?

Value for money

How fairly priced voters find it

¤ Price value23

¤ Price value75

Category winnerUnited Dreams Together for HimBest value score

Main accords

Strength of each scent family · outlined = shared by both

woody100%

fresh spicy92%

citrus84%

aromatic77%

fruity69%

musky61%

fresh spicy100%

aromatic86%

woody72%

citrus58%

lavender44%

herbal30%

Scent match61%Closely related · both fresh spicy, woody and aromatic

Note pyramid (duration)

Top, heart and base, with how long each lasts when known · gold = shared

Notes

SandalwoodJapanese PlumJuniperIso E SuperTangerineBergamotBlack PepperMuskPatchouliGeranium

No top / heart / base split published

Top

JuniperBlack PepperBergamotTangerine

Heart

LavenderThymeWatery NotesGeranium

Base

CedarMossAmberTonka Bean

InformationalShared notesJuniper, Tangerine, Bergamot and Black Pepper. Durations are only published for What About ME?, so this is not scored.

Seasons & time of day

Relative to each fragrance's best season

Spring100

Summer10

Fall90

Winter60

Day100

Night100

Spring100

Summer93

Fall50

Winter22

Day–

Night–

Category winnerNot enough dataMost year-round

Who wears it

Gender appeal votes

Men18

Unisex59

Women24

Work 31%Casual 29%Date 24%Party 16%

Men90

Unisex9

Women1

InformationalProfile onlyAudience is not scored

Ranking & credits

Fragranxe overall rank, nose and launch

Overall rank#42,519

PerfumerNot listed

Launched—

Reviews2

Overall rank#13,969

PerfumerNot listed

Launched—

Reviews12

Category winnerUnited Dreams Together for HimHigher overall rank

In a nutshell

Description & review snapshot

What About ME? by Lengling is a modern woody spicy fragrance centered on Australian sandalwood, tart Japanese plum, and aromatic juniper berries. The first spray delivers a brisk snap of tangerine, cracked black pepper, and bitter bergamot before settling into something much creamier. There is no heavy smoke or sticky…

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United Dreams Together for Him by Benetton opens with a sharp burst of juniper and black pepper, quickly settling into an aromatic mix of lavender and thyme. It is a functional, woody fragrance for daily wear, leaning toward casual, warm-weather settings. The base of cedar, moss, and tonka bean provides a clean, soapy…

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InformationalRead bothTaste is personal

How we score: ratings blend public fragrance ratings with Fragranxe member votes; longevity, sillage, value and sentiment are community vote scores, and season bars are relative to each fragrance's strongest season. Categories with too little data are shown but not scored. The scent match weighs accord overlap (60%) and shared notes (40%). More in the FAQ.

Common questions

Straight answers from the data above.

Which is better, What About ME? or United Dreams Together for Him?

United Dreams Together for Him takes 3 of 5 categories. What About ME? is rated 3.87/5 from 23 votes; United Dreams Together for Him is rated 3.86/5 from 187 votes. Choose What About ME? for a woody and fresh spicy character. Wins on longevity and sillage & projection. Best in spring, day or night wear. Choose United Dreams Together for Him for a fresh spicy and aromatic character. Wins on ratings & consensus, value for money and fragranxe ranking. Best in spring.

Which lasts longer, What About ME? or United Dreams Together for Him?

What About ME? lasts longest (What About ME? 72/100, United Dreams Together for Him 55/100), based on community performance votes.

Which projects more, What About ME? or United Dreams Together for Him?

What About ME? projects furthest (What About ME? 60/100, United Dreams Together for Him 44/100), based on community performance votes.

Do What About ME? and United Dreams Together for Him smell similar?

Closely related: a 61% scent match on Fragranxe. Both share fresh spicy, woody and aromatic accords. Common notes include Juniper, Tangerine, Bergamot and Black Pepper.

Is What About ME? or United Dreams Together for Him better for summer or winter?

What About ME? suits day or night wear. Based on community season votes.

What are the notes in What About ME? and United Dreams Together for Him?

What About ME? features Sandalwood, Japanese Plum, Juniper, Iso E Super and Tangerine. United Dreams Together for Him has top notes of Juniper, Black Pepper, Bergamot and Tangerine, heart notes of Lavender, Thyme, Watery Notes and Geranium, a base of Cedar, Moss, Amber and Tonka Bean.