Fragrance comparison

You're The Reason vs Intimacy Urban

Notes, accords, longevity, sillage, seasons and community ratings, side by side.

Updated 5 Nov 2026 15 ratings analysed

You're The Reason

Dilís Parfum

—0 votes

Rank #70,530 AmberIris

Full profile Similar & dupes

19%scent match

Clearly different

1 wins

Intimacy Urban

Intimacy

3.0715 votes

Rank #59,732 Warm SpicyPatchouli

Full profile Similar & dupes

Quick verdict

Which one should you pick?

Intimacy Urban takes 1 of 1 categories.

You're The Reason
Choose it for a amber and iris character.
Intimacy Urban
Choose it for a warm spicy and patchouli character. Wins on fragranxe ranking. Best in fall, evening wear.

You're The Reason0/1

Intimacy Urban1/1

Ratings & consensus: Not scored
Community sentiment: Not scored
Longevity: Not scored
Sillage & projection: Not scored
Value for money: Not scored
Versatility: Not scored
Note pyramid (duration): Not scored
Fragranxe ranking: Intimacy Urban

Head-to-head breakdown

Every category side by side, with the winner called out.

Fragrance

You're The ReasonDilís Parfum

Intimacy UrbanIntimacy

Winner

Ratings & consensus

Average rating and ownership split

—/ 5 · 0 votes

Have 0%Had 0%Want 100%

3.07/ 5 · 15 votes

Have 52%Had 19%Want 29%

Category winnerNot enough dataRating weighted by vote count

Community sentiment

How voters split from love to hate

Not enough votes yet

13%Love

40%Like

13%Ok

7%Dislike

27%Hate

15 votes · too few to score

Category winnerNot enough dataMost positive mix (25+ votes)

Longevity & sillage

0–100 community performance scores

⏱ LongevityN/A

〰 SillageN/A

♥ Love / hateN/A

⏱ Longevity60

〰 Sillage35

♥ Love / hate52

Category winners

LongevityNo data

SillageNo data

Value for money

How fairly priced voters find it

¤ Price valueN/A

¤ Price value50

Category winnerNot enough dataBest value score

Main accords

Strength of each scent family · outlined = shared by both

amber100%

iris92%

aromatic84%

powdery77%

vanilla69%

earthy61%

warm spicy100%

patchouli92%

fruity84%

sweet77%

aromatic69%

woody61%

Scent match19%Clearly different · both aromatic

Note pyramid (duration)

Top, heart and base, with how long each lasts when known · gold = shared

Top30 to 45 minutes

PearJuniper BerriesSpicy NotesMandarin

Heart2 to 3 hours

IrisGeraniumGreen Notes

Base4 to 6 hours

Tonka BeanAmbergrisPatchouliCedar

Top

PineappleCardamomPear

Heart

IrisGeraniumLavender

Base

PatchouliLeatherVanilla

InformationalShared notesPear, Iris, Geranium and Patchouli. Durations are only published for You're The Reason, so this is not scored.

Seasons & time of day

Relative to each fragrance's best season

No season votes yet

Spring83

Summer67

Fall100

Winter83

Day83

Night100

Category winnerNot enough dataMost year-round

Who wears it

Gender appeal votes

Not enough votes yet

Men100

Unisex0

Women0

InformationalProfile onlyAudience is not scored

Ranking & credits

Fragranxe overall rank, nose and launch

Overall rank#70,530

PerfumerNot listed

Launched—

Reviews0

Overall rank#59,732

PerfumerNot listed

Launched—

Reviews2

Category winnerIntimacy UrbanHigher overall rank

In a nutshell

Description & review snapshot

You're The Reason by Dilís Parfum is a woody composition for men that balances crisp fruit with powdery florals and warm woods. The opening pairs sweet pear and juicy mandarin with brisk juniper berries and subtle spicy notes. As the initial brightness settles, iris takes center stage alongside rosy geranium and fresh…

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Intimacy Urban is a woody aromatic fragrance for men, released in 2021. It highlights a sharp pineapple opening paired with cardamom and pear notes. The scent transitions through iris, geranium, and lavender before settling into a base of patchouli, leather, and vanilla. It offers a contemporary, accessible profile fo…

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InformationalRead bothTaste is personal

How we score: ratings blend public fragrance ratings with Fragranxe member votes; longevity, sillage, value and sentiment are community vote scores, and season bars are relative to each fragrance's strongest season. Categories with too little data are shown but not scored. The scent match weighs accord overlap (60%) and shared notes (40%). More in the FAQ.

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Common questions

Straight answers from the data above.

Do You're The Reason and Intimacy Urban smell similar?

Clearly different: a 19% scent match on Fragranxe. Both share aromatic accords. Common notes include Pear, Iris, Geranium and Patchouli.

Is You're The Reason or Intimacy Urban better for summer or winter?

Intimacy Urban suits evening wear. Based on community season votes.

What are the notes in You're The Reason and Intimacy Urban?

You're The Reason has top notes of Pear, Juniper Berries, Spicy Notes and Mandarin, heart notes of Iris, Geranium and Green Notes, a base of Tonka Bean, Ambergris, Patchouli and Cedar. Intimacy Urban has top notes of Pineapple, Cardamom and Pear, heart notes of Iris, Geranium and Lavender, a base of Patchouli, Leather and Vanilla.